mrym

"to love" or "to be loved".Which one comes first?

i saw this question on another forum.i thought about it but i can not manage to dedice which one first.What do you think?

if i think this question which one is more important,i say "to be loved" is more important.

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kavita01

Well I would say to love beccause in order for you to love someone you have to love yourself first......wat do you think????

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mrym

i am agree with you,partlial.it is true that without loving yourself,you can not love other people.But,sometimes,even if you love yourself,you can feel alone without feeling anyone's love on you.i felt it.i felt alone.always thougth that nobody loved me.But now i dont feel like this,because i can feel my friends' love to me.

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I hear a voice say, "Dont be so blind"
It's telling me all these things
That you would probably hide
Am I your one and only desire?
Am I the reason you breathe?
Or am I the reason you cry ?

kavita01

that's also true...very tricky and confusing now I'm not sure which one comes first hmmmmmmmm lolz

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mrym

yeah..it is so confusing to decide....

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I hear a voice say, "Dont be so blind"
It's telling me all these things
That you would probably hide
Am I your one and only desire?
Am I the reason you breathe?
Or am I the reason you cry ?

natasha666

Hello mrym,

Don't be confused.

I think it is much better to love somebody (even if he or she doesn't love you back) than to be loved (that direction makes only problems).
To love somebody, there is always some hope that one day will be good.

Of course to love somebody you have to love yourself as a first.

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ghaaliya

I am also think that more important is love than to be loved. If you love someone you have a power for life, then you can fight to someone love you back.If you love everything is easy...