dusio

Wow, wow, wow...take it easy...I'm startin' to believe that you think that you can make your brain to do everything what you decide? But there is only one problem: the brain is before you. Can you change the fact that you feel pain if you cut your finger? I don't think so. And could you change yourself into e.g. homosexualist? I guess, that it is impossible. You can put it on an act, but not for real. And now (just try to...) imagine that homosexualists have the same point of view, the same feelings about their orientation as you have about your own. Real orientation could not be chosen. And it is not. The real homosexualist/bisexualist/heterosexualist could't do anything with the fact who he/she is. One thing can be done: acceptance.

I'm bisexual (or maybe even more homo than bi... ) with no reason. And I do not seek for the reason. I am who I am and I do feel well with it!

devanymfix

Sometimes we do thigns just because we like it or because it made us happy, but when it's something that it's for the whole life, a person have to know why and why for, in that time, the "for no reason" is no longer a reason. I asked you to explain me the "why", but I didn't find it. I really did imagined even before you asked me, and I found that there is no reason for me to become homo, I can't do something for no reason, espicially when it's something related to me, as a person. And that's why I asked for the "meaningful"..


It seems that our way in life is very different, but we both exist..anyway we ALL exist..

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dusio

So, you want me to say : WHY I'm bi/homo? Maybe you also wanna know "Why am I a human being"? How can I answer it?

devanymfix

You can't see what I am talking about, you can't be something except a humain, there is not another choice, if there was, then we should think about why this and why not that.

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And here's the point - there is no choice - I cannot be "so pure hetero" like you. It's against what I am.

devanymfix

I know that you see that there is no choice (even that there are 3 choices) but you don't feel that you choosed what you are, and that you think it's something born with you and.. and.. but about beeing humain (your exemple) there are not choices to discuss (what can I be except humain? Alien?)

For me, I see that you are agaisnt what you are because you are homo, you are a woman against yourself, do you see that I am against myself like I see you? I don't think so. Because since you think it's not a choice then you can accept anything.

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Ok - from your point of view -It is agianst human nature to have Down syndrome, but there are people who have it, am i right? Well, was there any choice for them? Ok, maybe this e.g. is too polar, my fault, but let's try it this way: ADHD - not a disorder for many people. A choice than? An influence of parental policy? I don't think so. It is inborn, connected with brain activity in some way. The same is with homo/heterosexuality. With one difference: it is not a disorder. You think it is, am I right? So - why do you think it is disorder? Against human nature? Hmm...Religion is against human nature too, but I do not think it is a disorder. It is rather a...social requirement... I do respect people of faith. I think there is nothing wrong with them. Not at all. But my way is other. I do not need to believe. But I also do not need to negate a fact, that there are people who need to believe. And it's great! That's all. And as a bi/homo I do not think that hetero is something out of this world. It's just not me. You know...Everyone has the right to be just as he/she is. As a human being I respect the "human-diversity". As a psychologist (almost), I know what is a disorder and what is not. I respect the international classifications, manuals of disorders. I cannot say that something is a disorder or is not a disorder just because I have a different point of view on that. How can I say that someone who prays everyday is ill, or somethin'? I would be a lout...

I know that my arguments are totally bad today, but my spine is killing me; you will need to forgive me... I cannot concentrate