What is Normal Sexual Act is not Love? - Page 2

dusio · 09-25-2007, 08:04 PM

I thought so, but just wanted to be sure...

I_notGenerous · 09-26-2007, 02:52 PM

I mean if sexual act is not an expression of love between two people. What is the impact? Even it is within two consenting adults. (without any force).

In spiritual context, it is not easy for a man to understand a woman and a woman to understand a man. It is not a matter of moral issue, is a matter of emotional being a silence charade. If the feelings of love is an expression of sexual act is a bonus, but if the feelings of love is absence and a sexual act is being expressed, is it possible to have happiness?

Neville · 09-26-2007, 03:46 PM

Human being having sexual act only for pleasure. There's no love here just sex.
Berhard is right, Religious point of view mean that it's only 2 people one male and one female. And this two people must be married. But is it really "normal" ?
What is normal in this world ?
How many people having sex without be married. Are they "unnormal" ?
2 Male together or 2 female together or more could having sex...
Normal sex mean only missionary position ?
For me normal sex don't exist...

I_notGenerous · 09-26-2007, 05:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neville

Human being having sexual act only for pleasure. There's no love here just sex.
Berhard is right, Religious point of view mean that it's only 2 people one male and one female. And this two people must be married. But is it really "normal" ?
What is normal in this world ?
How many people having sex without be married. Are they "unnormal" ?
2 Male together or 2 female together or more could having sex...
Normal sex mean only missionary position ?
For me normal sex don't exist...

The word is "dysfunction" But Berhard's statement confirmed on my defintion is universal.

dusio · 09-26-2007, 09:13 PM

I'm sure of one thing - in sex, there is no love at all. Sex is just a kind of a pure physiology. An exchange of fluids. No magic, no sublimed emotions. In this way it is a normal thing. A thing to do between two people who fill a kind of a pull/drive towards each other. It is connected with our hormones, and other physiological processes...

born2.bfree777 · 09-26-2007, 09:24 PM

The title speaks for itself. Really if that would be it, trust the human kind would have disappeared even before dinosaurs, ha! Because if you take in considerations the pleasures of pregnancy and all that, well... Sex has to be a bit more than an exchange of fluids to make it all worth it. It is as a matter of fact.

voyageur · 09-27-2007, 06:02 PM

Wooh! everybody is tense.
I think as others the two(or more!) persons must be consentings, and should have the same feelings about sexual relations. Catholics don't make love as libertines do. Everyone has his sexuality. There are diferent sexualities.
BUT, I don't think that sex is not only a matter of physical shakes. There is obligatory comunication: verbal or look or touch. Even touch is comunication in sexuality. And if there is comunication, there is exchange between to mind and so emotions, feelings take a place. Two person/mind/personality meet together. What is the interest of having sexual relations if you can do masturbation! Guys, you are not honest with yourself!
However I think amake love is not just expresion of a love feeling, because duing the act we meet a deep aspect of our personality/mind and of our spouse, we aren't the curent us. It's a bit animal, the smell, the sweat, the tast of the spouse skin, all the corps liquids.
I don't think that 2 men or 2 women want to make love together is an unatural think. Heart has desirs that reason doesn't understand. It could also be biological, whatever.
Finally, I think normal and good sexual relation should be a symphony, with two instruments, and it must sound well whatever our register is.

09-25-2007, 08:04 PM	#8 (permalink)
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09-26-2007, 02:52 PM	#9 (permalink)
I_notGenerous Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Singapore Posts: 42 I_notGenerous is an unknown character at this point	Dear All... I mean if sexual act is not an expression of love between two people. What is the impact? Even it is within two consenting adults. (without any force). In spiritual context, it is not easy for a man to understand a woman and a woman to understand a man. It is not a matter of moral issue, is a matter of emotional being a silence charade. If the feelings of love is an expression of sexual act is a bonus, but if the feelings of love is absence and a sexual act is being expressed, is it possible to have happiness? Last edited by I_notGenerous; 09-26-2007 at 02:59 PM.
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09-26-2007, 03:46 PM	#10 (permalink)
Neville L'heretique Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: France Posts: 181 Neville is an unknown character at this point	Human being having sexual act only for pleasure. There's no love here just sex. Berhard is right, Religious point of view mean that it's only 2 people one male and one female. And this two people must be married. But is it really "normal" ? What is normal in this world ? How many people having sex without be married. Are they "unnormal" ? 2 Male together or 2 female together or more could having sex... Normal sex mean only missionary position ? For me normal sex don't exist... __________________ Peu importe ou tu arrives, ce qui importe c'est le chemin que tu as emprunté pour y arriver.
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09-26-2007, 09:13 PM	#12 (permalink)
dusio Only death is certain... Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: I live in Poland Posts: 847 dusio is learning to walk	In my point of view... I'm sure of one thing - in sex, there is no love at all. Sex is just a kind of a pure physiology. An exchange of fluids. No magic, no sublimed emotions. In this way it is a normal thing. A thing to do between two people who fill a kind of a pull/drive towards each other. It is connected with our hormones, and other physiological processes...
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09-26-2007, 09:24 PM	#13 (permalink)
born2.bfree777 a candle Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: South of France Posts: 61 born2.bfree777 is an unknown character at this point	Woa, keep trying it might get better than that. The title speaks for itself. Really if that would be it, trust the human kind would have disappeared even before dinosaurs, ha! Because if you take in considerations the pleasures of pregnancy and all that, well... Sex has to be a bit more than an exchange of fluids to make it all worth it. It is as a matter of fact.
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09-27-2007, 06:02 PM	#14 (permalink)
voyageur Growing Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: France Posts: 27 voyageur is an unknown character at this point	in my point of view Wooh! everybody is tense. I think as others the two(or more!) persons must be consentings, and should have the same feelings about sexual relations. Catholics don't make love as libertines do. Everyone has his sexuality. There are diferent sexualities. BUT, I don't think that sex is not only a matter of physical shakes. There is obligatory comunication: verbal or look or touch. Even touch is comunication in sexuality. And if there is comunication, there is exchange between to mind and so emotions, feelings take a place. Two person/mind/personality meet together. What is the interest of having sexual relations if you can do masturbation! Guys, you are not honest with yourself! However I think amake love is not just expresion of a love feeling, because duing the act we meet a deep aspect of our personality/mind and of our spouse, we aren't the curent us. It's a bit animal, the smell, the sweat, the tast of the spouse skin, all the corps liquids. I don't think that 2 men or 2 women want to make love together is an unatural think. Heart has desirs that reason doesn't understand. It could also be biological, whatever. Finally, I think normal and good sexual relation should be a symphony, with two instruments, and it must sound well whatever our register is.
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