Leia

Yes, I think that a psychiatrist will not help, he'll only say that she's sick (and that's not true). A psychic is much better.

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Lucydelsol

Hello (and sorry for my bad English).

I’m very sorry for your girl friend. She is living very horrible things…
Not being a believer, if someone around me had to go trough such awaken nightmares, I ‘ll recommend to see a psychiatrist. To figure out, for example, when exactly all this began. Maybe (or not !!) after a kind of trauma in her life, or whatever.

Maybe for a believer, a pastor could help. But if he doesn’t, a psychiatrist seems to me the best answer.
There is no shame to go through a momentary mental trouble. And not all the psy give pills to get people feel better. Some of them are great listeners and help people to look at “what’s going on, just now?” Not more. And, on my opinion, it could be very helpful.

Anyway, I hope a very good luck for both of you.

Lucy.

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rogigor

I thought that psychiatrist would be a bad idea. I don't want to take her to a man who would tell her that she's sick or something...

Unfortunately (or fortunately) she didn't have any kind of trauma. It just suddenly began...

As I sad before, I don't want to take her there, but on the other hand if everything else fail, maybe it's not a bad idea... Will see

Oh, and Thank you all very much for your concern.

Leia

She hasn't a mental problem. I insist with an psychic, and *not* with an psychiatrist.

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Turkcerap

hey Leia, if anybody goes to psychiatrist, it doesnt mean that he or she has got meantal problem

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Leia

I've just quoted: " There is no shame to go through a momentary mental trouble. "

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Lucydelsol

Hi.

As I write, it is only my point of view, so a very personal way of looking at a situation.
Other people would go to see a pastor or read Bible, or Qran, or go to see a mystic, and there are certainly a lot of other ways to answer that, according to the lot of different values, beliefs, and so on, of everyone who is answering.

If I began to see or hear strange and scary stuffs, I would think I have a momentary mental problem, yes, but of course, nobody has to agree with my point of view, certainly not.
I wasn’t trying to say: that is the right thing to do. No! It’s not a place of struggle to me, or to convince anyone to think or do what I think and do.
It’s a place where sharing is possible.

I think that the sharing of all our different views (so different!) is something amazing, and precious, in the same time.
Go to a mystic or read Qran or Bible, astonished me. And that’s the point!

If I had a problem and ask you to give me your ways to go through, it would be helpful. Not because I would purchase them, but because astonishing me, they‘ll open my mind and let the place to answers I have never think at. (But that last point is also a very personal point of view!)


Bye everybody

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