Mahmoud1987

No please donot say that ..i can't imagine it's not exist ..i believe no one can live or enjoy his life without it..this is when we feel we donot have to pay for love or buy it with certain words or behaviours..finding someone love us unconditionally not an easy matter but it deserves trying

radical_abacus

What do you mean by 'love, as it is understood'? If you mean love as in two people fall madly in love with each other and then never argue or get angry with one another again, then I agree with that; that's a simplistic view of love that never withstands collision with reality.

But if you're saying that love at all doesn't exist, I must respectfully disagree.

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dusio

Maybe you need so called "love" to exist. I don't. My definition of love is different from a kind of relationship between people. I do enjoy my life without it. I do not need anyone to exist to be totally pleased with my existence.

dusio

For me "love" is a kind of a reference to wisdom or existential truth. It has nothing to do with the relationships between people (If it would be like this it would be also a relationship of dependence form one side or another).

Of course you can call "love" some relationships, or whatever you like. It's all boiled down to different kinds of denotation. Or, different views on the nature of "love".

radical_abacus

I am more than certain we have different views on the nature of love, and different meanings we've attributed to it. I am however intrigued by what you meant when you said that love is a reference to wisdom or truth. I just might not be getting it, but what exactly do you mean by that?

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dusio

Love should be a "picture-perfect" state, am I right? How can people claim that a kind of a relationship with anyone can be perfect? Between people there can be devotion, attachment, sexual attrection, respect, etc. But where is the perfect nature of all of it? In all of it we can find a lot of ups and downs.

But in a state of mind of reference to the existential truth, the real wisdom there is only this and nothing more. It gets you higher than you can imagine. In such a state you cannot have any mixed feelings or doubts. There is no place for any recreancy, no place for becomin' suspicious. If you want the truth of your existence, you want only that thuth. And only that counts. Love appears in philosophy or in one's own existence regardless of "anyone-else"

Well, more or less...

admai

Roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you.
But the roses are wilting, the violets are dead, the sugar bowl's empty and so is your head.
/so sad ...

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