Sorry, no attempt to explore you privacy.
Let me share a little of my experience.
Money is a very important factor, the moment you start dating. When the relationship is steady, you'll start saving up for the marriage and the house. When you have a kid, you'll have to save for his/her education. In short, once you get married, everything becomes materialistic. Many guys will save up before thinking about dating, not before 30 years old. Believe me, life is very miserable without money.
