Hi
Here you go.. If you don't mind my asking - if you're both writing to each other in Hungarian, then why the English?
Are you coming on to me? I like the way you look at the world.. I smiled a lot as I read your letter. Well, I seriously read the part about affairs - and then I smiled a lot later on. I like your outlook on life - and I also checked out your picture on iwiw, and I'm really proud that I had a crush on you in high school, even despite your braces. So don't sell yourself short, just because at the age of 31, kisses are nice. You could get enough kisses to make you sick of them!
My disappointment has been mostly emotional and not physical, so it's not really a question of an affair. You can't wear protection over your heart, much as people would like to. Anyway, it's really true that we men work differently, and in my case there's so much turmoil in my heart that it would be better if it were a physical affair. So we are actually going to relationship therapy. Initially I was set against it, but now I'm actually enjoying it. Varietas delectat, as the Latin expression went.
Unfortunately, things between Laura and I are much as they are with you and Raul: she's my best friend, and we can talk for hours, we have common interests and the sex is fantastic. But something inexplicable is missing..
Last night I saw Brokeback Mountain, a romantic drama about two gay cowboys. I hope it wins an Oscar. It was a little hard on America. Poor guys walked in harder shoes than we do.
You made a good choice in the case of that 37-year-old guy, and good luck on your new date. If he's not a good kisser, then forget about him.
Unusually, I slept at home last night, since the movie ended late, but today from the office I'm going to house-sit for a common friend of ours who's away at a conference for two weeks.
All the best, and I'm really happy that after so many years I've found such a good friend in once again!