hehe of coursei look! ill tell u about it...two people agree about matrimony and the they let their family...and they decide one day to speak this event. and at that day, guy and his family go to girl's home. and while they are going, they buy a box of chocolate and a bouquet flower for girl. and when they arrive,girl boils coffee for each other. and while they are drinking their coffee(but turks coffee
) family of son say these words;"with Allah's order and Prophet's(Muhammed's) utterance,we want your daughter to our son ... " and when your family accept, it means that u are Sözlü, it means that u are like engaged to be married...