Hi Nani
nice talking, you just made it to the problem
You said that women feel more secure when wearing hijab... That means men have a hard time to avoid violence and rapt when women do not wear it!!!!! Don't you think that men should do a little effort to keep it normal even when women wear a bit less clothes?? And leave the hijab a religious thing, not a protection against men...
And like I said before, if every single man wishes women to wear hijab how on hearth could they decide another way?? They do not know but they are not free to choose.
And something rather opposit to what you said: being free does not mean you can do whatever you want. There are laws on how you have to educate you children (what he can wear or not). And this is the role of the society to interfere in your private life in case you ill-treat your children wife or any other people.
Your body is not even yours, you cannot do whatever you want to with