its not only a question of pleasure.. its just that...how explain to you.. i CAN'T have sex with a boy, i'm bored, they disgust me : its not only a question like "how can i have more pleasure, maybe by trying girls i will have much more than with boys!" for me, its "natural" to be with a girls...its beyond my will...
i understand what you mean, but i don't really see a boy like a "-" and a girl like a "+" : we have a different sex, but we can "mix".. after all, when you have sex you don't say to yourself "i'm making a coït to make a baby" : we have a kind of "instinct" that prompt you to follow your physical attraction, and normally you are attracted by the other sex.. but sometimes, it doesn't work..
you know, if i shose, i would be heterosexual. really, that's much more simple, and i tried with boys, but..that's it, that's impossible for me.
anyway, you can be gay and be in love, and be socialy "normal" and accepted in some countries - and i'm happy to live here. otherwise, i would have been obliged to marry a man and our sexual life would be a kind of disaster! ^^
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