i understand you, devanymfix, as my father is maroccan and share the same viewpoint. but i agree with dusio, as a lesbian myself, i can imagine being attracted by a man physically but i can't have sex anyway and being as blossomed as i am with a girl...
then, to answer dusio, for me, a norm is a kind of a social creterion that everybody, in this society, refers to : that implies loads of different behaviours : people do respect the norms, other don't, but the social reference to say if a person is normal or not is to refer to these norms...
for instance, your (and mine) sexual life are not normal as in our respective countries, most of people are heterosexual (maybe 90%) and their sexual behaviour are the norm (heterosexuality)... but.. anyway...i rekon love is shared by everyone, gay, bi, heterosexual.. that's part of human-being.. maybe that's one of the thing (with the need of eating, drinking...) that all humans in the world have in common.
so i dont really understand why wonder about the place of "what is normal"(which is relative to everyone, and every culture) in love (which is general, and is a feeling shared by everyone...)
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