Originally Posted by foxmart
I've learned that when I approach a girl that I shouldn't have any preconceptions as to what she wants in general, but what she wants right there and then. Everyone's different, after all, and even within individuals, what someone wants now may be different than what someone wants later.
Very true! You can never fully understand what anyone wants at a particular moment. It's best to just be yourself -- all you really ever be. Then each of you can find out if you each like what is happening.
You made good points on the particulars. I bet you have lots of fun.